Each morning at a little after 7, whether it is rain, or hail, or shine, I watch a little old lady passes by my front door. I do not know her name, I do not know where she lives, all I know is that our front door forms part of her morning constitutional.
When I see her I always smile and call out, “Gunaydin”. She has never acknowledged me. She has never wished me a good morning or even glanced in my direction, she merely makes her way past my front door as part of her usual morning routine. She walks slowly but with purpose. Some mornings I see she is walking with difficulty but today I noticed she has a new appendage to help her on her constitution – a cane. She seemed a little more sure of her step this morning but she still did not wish me a good morning when I waved at her from my terrace.
It is difficult to win over the old ladies in the village. After their initial curiosity of the yabanci amongst them I have generally been ignored. A few teyzer will say good morning and one or two of them will even ask me to join them for çay but on a whole I am left alone these days. That suits me fine. I am happy in my solitude and it gives me more time to write.
I do wonder, however, what I have to do to win this little lady over. A smile, that is all I am asking for. Maybe tomorrow.
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